The old ways don't do it anymore Death of desire Sex toys : now more than ever Is this my marriage? together yet alone Talking about sex Off the beaten path: nontraditional relationships How could you do this to me? Sex with myself Unlearning our upbringing : women's stories Unlearning our upbringing : men's stories Sex hurts : vulvar/vaginal pain Reclaiming sexuality after cancer Erectile dysfunction : what men don't say out loud Erectile dysfunction : what women say, do, and need to know No way back : living with a spouse with alzheimer's disease Death, grieving-and then what? Sensuality for hire DWO : dating while old(er) Safer sex-yes, at our age Why sex is better now than ever : readers describe the joys of older-age sex