The ace and aro relationship guide : making it work in friendship, love, and sex
"Should I be upfront with someone I'm interested in that I'm ace or aro? How do I get people to respect my boundaries around intimacy? What if I don't want intimacy at all? It is selfish to pursue a relationship if I don't want romance? These questions are not only a source of deep anxiety and frustration for ace and aro people -- but limit the heights that ace and aro folks believe they can reach for in their lives. These questions make us belie...