A course in obstacles Lauren's lesson: It's not how many steps are in front of you, it's how you climb them Avoiding labels and other people's interpretations of you, or, Be prepared to fight to define yourself! Lauren's lesson: Labels are great for fashion, but are totally gauche when used on people Naysayers and non-doers, and why I don't associate with them Lauren's lesson: Avoid the word "No" at all costs Pay your dues Lauren's lesson: Rejection can be your greatest ally Foes, frenemies, F'em Lauren's lesson: Take inventory of the company you keep and clean house every once in a while Pretty me Lauren's lesson: Food and oxygen are life essentials, but so are platform shoes, oversize shades, big handbags, and enormous pillows Unforgettable Lauren's lesson: Being different is a gift and an asset