Introduction: Marriage is tough Men's modes Men's mode #1 amorous : never give up! Men's mode #2 work : every man's bane, every man's Blessing Men's mode #3 play : win the game! Men's mode #4 sustenance : man does not live by bread alone Men's mode #5 protector : guard at the door Men's mode #6 connection with God : my life matters in the universe Men's mode #7 guy time : friends, fathers, and mentors Women's moods Women's mood #1 romantic : romancing the home Women's mood #2 nesting : home sweet home Women's mood #3 playful : what are little girls made of? Women's mood #4 nurturing : tending the nest Women's mood #5 cycle : the moon and the tide Women's mood #6 spiritual : "my sweet baby girl" Women's mood #7 girlfriends : the sisterhood